You'd be surprised, but that was what a very decent guy friend of mine said.
A friend of mine dropped by yesterday (Not to talk about sex obviously). He wanted me to wake him up as he liked this girl for more than a year, just to find out that she already has a boyfriend 3 days back. Ever since, he hasn't been eating. Nor is he doing his work properly. And if you happen to be a sad boy like him, my one and only advice is to just.. give up la, nth happened bet u 2, and nth happened now still. So no one loses anything. Moreover, this girl isn't even in Singapore now..... That's exactly what I said... Am I bad at this or what........
K back to the title. He then told me his poor lady friend got disturbed by some perverts to go sun tan in bikini.
Him: How could you meet a friend just to leech her like that?
Me: But isn't it normal that a lot of guys think that way?
Him: If I had a girlfriend, and I had the urge to have sex, I'd rather find a prostitute.
Me: Fuck. Why? Isn't that insulting to your girlfriend? She'd think you prefer prostitute to her.
Him: But I refuse to disrespect her. And I don't want to make use of her for my own desire.
Me: Isn't that weird? What if your girlfriend prefer you to have sex with her than a prostitute??
Him: NO. There is no way I will disrespect her.
Me: K what if she wants it. She is horny and she wants it.
Him: Then no choice.....
I kept thinking this friend is too extreme already and honestly this is my first time hearing this kinda thing, But men like that exists. This friend wouldn't even talk to me about the type of girls he like when we first know each other around 4 years back because to him, that is being disrespectful towards me.
I told my boyfriend about this that evening and though my boyfriend's thinking isn't like that at all, he told me this, 'I respect him for the response. Maybe the girlfriend would be offended and felt cheated, his intentions were good.'
He then added, 'But I'll still prefer to have sex with girlfriend instead of prostitute.'
Now what do you think.